You're up to great things.

By great things, I mean: You're living your life, you're alive, you're breathing, thinking, feeling, deciphering, and choosing what's important and meaningful to you.

By great things, I mean: Whether you want to change the world, feed the hungry, or bring clean water to those who don't have it; whether you want to have one or ten kids, live in the suburbs of Mississippi and have a fenced-in yard, a cat, a dog and a pet ferret; whether you want riches, multiple businesses and some kind of social "status"; or whether you want a job (or none at all), just making a nice living that gets you by.

All of these define you're up to great things because you get to choose what you want, and you get to want what you want. There's nothing that isn't great about any of it. None of it is meaningless or mediocre.

And because you're up to great things (no matter how "big" or "small" those things are), I know that however you've identified that you want to live your life, you believe that living your life that way is what makes you (or will make you) happy.

You're in-charge of the great life that you're up to - every bit of it - and you get to experience as much greatness in as many moments as you choose to. Since one of the greatest things you can ever experience is being happy and feeling-good, and therefore you've ascertained your way of life and preferences as a way to experience your happiness, I want you to live as much of your greatness as you can possibly allow for yourself.

To do that, it's helpful to understand and apply some basic premises to your daily awareness.

Christine MeyerJuly 8, 2022Comment

Same issues popping up? Here’s why

Have you noticed the thing you have a problem with or the things you have issues with are the things that keep showing up in your life?

Telltale signs are, you hear yourself say,

“My problem is this (fill in the blank)”,
“I have an issue with (fill in the blank)",
"I can't, I haven't been able to, this keeps happening...",
"I've been feeling this way (fill in the blank for your feels) for a long time",
and "I struggle with ...."

You often talk about said problem, issue, feels or patterns, #1, because you can't help it (because of the momentum you've got going on around it - more on that in a later post), and #2, because it temporarily makes you feel better to know you're not the only human on the planet who's having this experience or feeling this way.

Don't get me wrong, human bonding is good, and it can sometimes help to know you're not the only one, but bonding over what you don't want more-of, is not a habit I encourage.

Christine MeyerJune 23, 2022Comment

With Every Lock, Comes a Key

I’ve written this in response to the questions I’ve been receiving (either directly or indirectly) about our current global situation:

If you begin from a vibrational premise, then all things can be understood - even those things that seem so big and so “wrong” or beyond “understandable”. From a vibrational lens, there’s nothing ever imperfect happening, in this universe of perfect, individual and collective vibrational asking and answering.

What’s being asked for, is always what’s being answered.

“The problem” is always a solution in disguise. With the problem, solutions are birthed that couldn’t have been there without the problem coming first.

Within the problem are the answers you’ve been seeking, from which you’ll continue to want and ask for more.

What could this “problem” be creating and solving? Responding to and answering?

Life forms and informs you.

If you look at people’s responses (or reactions) to this current situation – it helps you understand that this is simply a manifestation of the fear-based and paranoid culture that we live in. Thoughts and emotions lead to things. They manifest. But a further manifestation of something unwanted (ie., a manifestation that seems more obvious or observable) creates a stronger desire for something wanted. Nothing will make the essence of what you’ve been vibing (and therefore being a vibrational match to) clearer than when something like this happens. It demonstrates to you how you feel, what you *were* feeling and what you believe along with opportunities to choose more deliberately how you now want to feel, and what you now want to believe. It brings clarity. It brings choice. It brings empowerment.

It's All You

Most people go through life feeling like it’s more or less random.

Might that be you?

You’re managing, sure. You’ve got a pretty good handle on most things –– you get up in the morning and have your beverage of choice, go to work, interfacing with mostly the same people, doing the same things, thinking the same thoughts, hit repeat and do it again tomorrow. You do all the right things, mostly, and so everything works, mostly.

All well and good, until...

You launch that product or service you thought was really great, and it totally flops.

Your in-laws just. won’t. change. those super annoying habits.

The government, hhmm, shall we say, Trump?...does something that feels out of your hands.

The control you’ve asserted in the past, worked.

The control you’re trying to assert now, doesn’t.

Wtf gives?

Outlook on Life, Self-AwarenessChristine MeyerMay 3, 2019you, self-empowerment, relationshipsComment

Who are you now?

The stories that replay in your head can be so loud.

The things they said, you thought were true.

The way you used to feel shows up in your now, taking you back to when you were three when your father left, when you were twelve when the kids on the playground made fun of you, or from your more recent past when you chose yourself instead of him.

Echoes from your past,

“Who do you think you are?”

“Get over it.”

“You’re not as good as her or as pretty as her.”

“You’ll never amount to anything.”

“Put up and shut up.”

The voice of scorn, “Your work isn’t good enough”, “No one will ever want to marry you”, “You want too much,” or, “You think the whole universe revolves around you, don’t you?” (Well yes, as a matter of fact it does, thank you.)

Beliefs, Ingredients for life, Self-AwarenessChristine MeyerOctober 15, 2018 Comments

Mirror, Mirror on the Wall

Mirror, Mirror on the wall, who do you see?

Priceless, worthy.

No matter what you've heard.

Incomparable. Beautiful to the core.

Unmistakably you. Scars, lines, color, shape.

Peering through your eyes is your soul.

If you see anything else, it's not your soul looking at you - it's the lies you've believed.

Mirror, Mirror on the wall, who do you see?

Beliefs, Outlook on Life, Self-AwarenessChristine MeyerNovember 27, 2017Comment

Where Has The Love Gone?

Where once there was connection and the warm and fuzzies, now the love between you has slithered away leaving layers of scaly resentment, anger and frustration.

When you first met, you loved-him-so. He left sparkles and fairy-dust in his tracks. He painted your toenails, fluffed your pillows, paid attention to you in ways that made you feel really special, and looked longingly into your eyes. If someone were looking-at-you-looking-at-him, all that could be seen were big hearts bursting out of your eyeballs as you gazed adoringly at him. You easily overlooked his "flaws" ("What flaws?!?", you asked), his messes and gruff manor around anything emotional. "Perfection, manifested," you thought.

Then one day, you noticed something about him that seemed like a flaw in the perfection package. You gave it some thought; maybe you discussed it with your friend(s). You may have decided you should discuss it with him, asking him to stop doing (or change) that thing because it made you feel irritated, bothered, angry or bad in some way.

So he did. Kind of.

Ingredients for life, Relationships, Self-AwarenessChristine MeyerMay 19, 2017Comment